Figuring Out How to Make New Friends as a GrownUp

figuring out how to make new friends as a grownup

Making new friends as an adult can be awkward, and sometimes very hard when you are new to a city, workplace, or group. In this episode of Figure Out Your Life podcast, I discuss the beneficial effects of friendship and share 7 tips for making new friends as a grown up. 

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Figuring Out How to Be a Great Wedding Guest

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You’ve been invited to a wedding...now what? Before you do anything, let me give you the 411 on wedding guest etiquette. There’s more to attending a wedding than getting dressed up, trying to catch the bouquet, and dancing all night long---as a guest, you have some responsibilities. In this episode of Figure Out Your Life podcast, I discuss my most recent experience attending a friend’s wedding and share my Dos and Don’ts of being a great wedding guest. 

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Figuring Out When To Stick With Something And When To Quit

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I quit my teaching job two weeks before the school year started, despite not having another job lined up. And, it is the best decision I could have made for myself professionally and personally. In this episode of Figure Out Your Life podcast, I discuss why I decided to quit my job and explore the question many of us ask ourselves: How long should I stick with something---and when should I call it quits?  

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Figuring Out How To Learn A Second Language

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Today, speaking more than one language has become increasingly important for education, work, and travel. In this episode of Figure Out Your Life, I discuss learning a new language with Dr. Aisha Z. Cort, and she shares with us tips and strategies on getting started on your own language learning journey from her experiences as a multilingual speaker and language coach. 

Dr. Cort is a Cuban-Guyanese-American Spanish speaker from Boston, MA. She received her undergraduate degree from Yale University in Spanish (2005) and earned her Master’s and Doctorate degrees from Emory University in Spanish Literature (2009, 2010). She lives in  Washington, DC and is currently a full-time lecturer of Spanish at Howard University. Her company Hey Dr. Cort! offers a number of services that allow you to take control of your language learning journey on your own time, including a Viva La Lengua: 4 Weeks to Conversationally Fluent Spanish course and cultural immersion trips to Havana, Tulum, and Barcelona. 

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Figuring Out How To Start A Business

Figuring Out How to Start a Business with Dr. Aisha Z. Cort

Have you ever wanted to start a business, but didn’t know how to start? In this episode of Figure Out Your Life with Toya T, I speak to Dr. Aisha Z. Cort about her business Hey Dr. Cort! and she shares with us what she has figured out about starting a business, from idea to launch. 

Dr. Cort is a Cuban-Guyanese-American Spanish speaker from Boston, MA. She received her undergraduate degree from Yale University in Spanish (2005) and earned her Master’s and Doctorate degrees from Emory University in Spanish Literature (2009, 2010). She lives in  Washington, DC and is currently a full-time lecturer of Spanish at Howard University. 

Hey Dr. Cort! offers a number of services that allow you to take control of your language learning journey on your own time, including a Viva La Lengua: 4 Weeks to Conversationally Fluent Spanish course and cultural immersion trips to Havana, Tulum, and Barcelona. 

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Figuring Out How To Shoot Your Shot

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According to Urban Dictionary, to shoot your shot is "to let go of your pride and pursue someone you are interested in"; "to take a chance no matter if you fail or not." For some women, shooting their shot at a guy they are interested in can be hard because of the fear of being rejected or of being seen as "thirsty." In this episode of Figure Out Your Life with Toya T, I discuss why women should shoot their shots, and share what I have figured out from my own experiences approaching potential baes, including tips on how to shoot your shot the right way.

Figuring Out Online Dating

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Looking for love? Have you tried online dating? In recent years, online dating has quickly become a normal way for singles to meet and connect with other single people. In this episode of Figure Out Your Life With Toya T, I discuss online dating and share what I have figured out from my own experience of meeting people online, including a list of some of the best online dating apps and simple tips for attracting the right people to your profile.

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